A few weeks ago, I came home from my aunt's funeral. Like many funerals, it was filled with hugs, tears, stories, and the quiet realization that life changes in an instant. Later that evening, I sat down with my mom. Mommy's 70 years old. If you know Caribbean mothers, you already know. They're strong. Opinionated. Loving. And they'll tell you exactly what's on their mind whether you asked or not. Somehow our conversation drifted toward her own funeral. She looked at me and s